1. I have been stuck in this conflicted feeling for a while: want to be connected to others, yet at the same time, I don't want to talk with them. Sometimes I find myself scrolling through my contacts to see with whom I can chat. But after initiating the text or conversation, I quickly lost interest. That's why I'm writing this now: to channel my need to talk. 
2. I've noticed that lately, I've become too judgmental of others, especially when it comes to their behaviour. I'm overly conscious of their gestures, word choices, and expressions. I hate that I pay too much attention to such details. Sometimes, it makes me hesitant to connect with them because I dislike their trivial behaviour. 
3. I've been experiencing a nasty cough for the past three days. I don't like taking medicines so I just put up with it. Due to this cough, I am unable to function properly today at work. I miss being a kid. I just wanna take a rest and do nothing all day. 
4. I finished reading "Then She Was Gone" by Lisa Jewell. As I wrote on Goodreads, this book is unsettling and heartbreaking. After this I need to pick something light and heartwarming to neutralise these lingering feelings. 

Lately, "anxious" is the word I use and feel the most, I guess. In my last post, I wrote that I was anxious waiting for the LSHTM's decision on my application. Finally, a glimmer of hope arrived on 8 February: I got my conditional offer. The thing is, I've fulfilled the condition (had my transcript sent by Universitas Indonesia), but up until no,w I haven't gotten my unconditional offer. I know it has just been 2 days but it feels like forever. I keep checking my email and application portal now and then.

A letter of sponsorship from LPDP for my LSHTM study has also been sent to the admission team. However, the name of the major at the LoS is still Master of Public Health. I hope it doesn't matter. I will proceed with the changes to the programme after I get the unconditional offer. My programme name should be MSc PH for Global Practice, not MSc PH. 

Arrgh!

LSHTM please give me the offer.

written from Batik Building, 3rd floor

(again)

Update on 15 February 2025.

This game of waiting is super frustrating, so, 2 days ago I sent an email to the admissions team confirming the PDF transcript sent by my previous university.  There was a reply (finally) last night, confirming that LSHTM had received it and would review it asap.

Oh, my LoS didn't cause trouble although the sponsorship is for MSc PH. The deposit fee payment has been waived until 1 July 2025. By this time I should be able to provide the Letter of Guarantee (LoG) or pay the deposit fee. This is a relief because it means I still have five months to proceed. 

I really really wish that the good news from LSHTM will come next week.

I can't bear the thought of LSHTM slipping out of my hand after all this long journey.

Please pray for me. 

I'll keep you posted (although I know no one reads this blog, lol). 

written from Perpustakaan Jakarta, after finishing my Academic Writing Class

Update on 17 February 2025.

I know it won't come today. But still, I keep on refreshing my email. 

It might be tomorrow. 

Be patient, Neti. 

James Clear in his book Atomic Habits said that our actions reveal how bad we want something. I realised that my motivation to regularly write in this blog might not be strong enough since it has been almost 4 months since my last post. I have hundreds of brain dumps to write and countless inner chatter in my head; however, sometimes it feels very challenging to face my thoughts and feelings and it takes so much courage to write them down in this blog. I know avoiding them — instead of dissecting and solving them one by one (if needed) — will be detrimental to my mental health. So this is me, trying to do journaling again. Apart from cataloguing my life updates, I also want to get used to writing in English. 

There were not many updates from the last quarter of 2024. However, there were at least 2 highlights: I passed the LPDP scholarship on 7 November 2024 and went to Geneva for the second time on 18-24 November 2024. Getting the LPDP scholarship might sound like a big achievement, but honestly, the euphoria only felt for 2-3 days. After that I kept on questioning myself on my competencies, I was afraid getting the LPDP was merely a stroke of luck. This is the thing about being people with insecurities, no matter how many people validate my skills and competencies, I always feel that I'm not good enough. Then, my second highlight was going to Switzerland to attend the meeting of the WHO Member States Mechanism on Substandard and Falsified Medical Products. I was connected with many new people during the meeting, including Rutendo himself (ISF team lead). That business trip even validated my choice of taking a master's in public health. Lastly, I was connected to some people like Bu Lucky S Slamet, Pak Roy S. Sparringa, bu Togi, and Bu Ratna. They're people I've looked up to, all this time. 

Moving to January 2025, I had my worst birthday. I cried almost all day reflecting on all the things I've been through. Almost everyone forgot my birthday, even my mom and Gautam; making 7th January 2025 worse than ever. I don't think I'll like that date again in the future (or I'll be happy on that day). The following day, I had a psychologist appointment; so it meant another crying session! On the brighter side, I read more books in January, or actually since December 2024. I've started reading fiction again, which saved me from my reading slump. I met Sofia who introduced me to Colleen Hoover and other writers. So far I've read 5 books. I hope my reading habit keeps going strong this year. 

Today is 6 February 2025, and my latest update was I got a Letter of Acceptance from the University of Edinburgh. I'm still anxiously waiting for LSHTM's decision, though. I'm dying to get into LSHTM, so please God let me.

Hm. I think that's all. I'm not good at making closing statements. So, see you!

Cheers,
Neti

from Batik Building, 3rd floor

Hari ini emosi dan interaksi sosial yang saya rasakan intens sekali. Pada pukul 08.00-09.00 saya menjalani wawancara tahap akhir suatu beasiswa (saya harus bersiap dari satu jam sebelumnya). Selanjutnya pada pukul 10.00 saya diminta menjadi chairperson pada kegiatan simulasi sidang/konferensi internasional. Saya sedang menjalani pelatihan di Bandung, jauh dari rumah, jauh dari Arina. I cried as I typed that sentence. 

Pertanyaan "apakah saya sudah melakukan yang terbaik?" kembali menghantui pikiran. Perasaan khawatir tersebut sangat intens sampai-sampai saya sempat menangis beberapa kali. Selepas wawancara tadi saya tidak sempat melepaskan emosi karena harus segera bersiap menjadi chairperson. Bahannya pun baru saya baca dan siapkan saat itu juga, jadi betul-betul tidak ada waktu untuk memproses perasaan paska wawancara. 

Baru setelah makan siang dan sesi pelatihan dimulai kembali, saya tidak bisa menahan perasaan. Setelah izin sejenak untuk ke kamar mandi, saya menangis sedikit. Kenapa sedikit? Karena tahu gak sih perasaan ingin menangis tapi tidak ingin mata sembab? Mengganggu sekali pokoknya, mau nangis saja mikirin bentuk muka yang pasti berantakan setelahnya. 

Interaksi sosial berlanjut semakin intens karena di sore hari juga ada simulasi public speaking. After that I still have to engage in a social settings. I went out with Mba Wulan, Pak Arief, and Ragil to a nearby cafe. It was fun though, but I still realize that deep down I wanna cry so bad. 

At the afternoon, before going to that cafe, my mentor called me, asking how the interview was going. He emphasized again that I'm a super transparent person. 

Actually it felt good when he told me that I'm a really smart person. But...... He said I'm too transparent, people could read me easily. I told him how anxious I was after the interview. Up until now, I'm really afraid of the result although I tried not to focus on it. 

It's already 00.45 and I'm crying while typing this post and listening to "Waking Up Together With You" by Arditho Pramono.  I thought about what could I do better on that interview? What if I failed again? Did I give my best effort on this?

I'm sleepy I think I'm typing something that's not relevant. 

Aston Pasteur

3 Oktober 2024

Setelah kejadian 26 Juni 2024, aku jadi jauh lebih aware dengan diri sendiri dan ingin segera memperbaiki semuanya saat itu juga. Sadar kalau baju itu-itu saja, langsung pengen beli baju. Sadar kalau belum lancar nyetir, langsung impulsif daftar les nyetir (lagi). Impulsif mau daftar kelas academic writing juga. Lalu beli seabrek skincare dan make up dan paket treatment. Lalu konsultasi urusan kerontokan rambut. Sampai hal-hal ga masuk akal yang selama ini tidak pernah terlintas, jadi kepikiran terus menerus. 

Proses ini menyakitkan sekali. 

Update 12 September 2024.

Sudah mendaftar academic writing. Seharusnya tanggal 21 September mulai kelas academic writing level upper intermediate. Namun tadi mendapatkan email bahwa untuk kelas tersebut, pesertanya tidak memenuhi kuota. Semoga aku bisa geser ke kelas intermediate saja. 

Today is Wednesday, 25 July 2024. We had an event with BPOM provincial offices at Shangri-La Surabaya since yesterday. 

There were some experiences that boost my mood. 

1. Had the chance to talk with Pak Roy Sparringa. He even followed me back on Insta and he gave "like" to my post. 
2. My close friend during short-course said that I was beautiful in that black dress (kebaya). 
3. I laughed much with my friends.

I had a talk with one of my best (?) friend during short course in Belgium last night. We talked about random things for almost 3 hours.

That's it. 

Ciao!

Yogyakarta, 9 July 2024

Got a call from my team leader just now. He said that my director talked with Bu Lucky S. Slamet today during the meeting, yes bu Lucky S. Slamet I mentioned before. The former head of Indonesian FDA, a part of WHO experts. 

And she praised and complimented me in front of him :)))))

I'm super happy!

I promise I will perform better and better and better.

Today marked my return to work after taking some much-needed annual leave due to personal issues.

I had two back-to-back meetings. The last meeting focused on WLA assessment preparation, and it turned out to be a particularly memorable one for me.

What made my day truly special was receiving recognition from Bu Lucky S. Slamet, the former head of the Indonesian FDA. Bu Lucky is someone I have always admired and looked up to. Her acknowledgment of my potential was incredibly upliftings.

This may seem like a small moment, but for me, it means a lot. It’s a reminder that hard work and dedication do get noticed, and it motivates me to continue striving for excellence.

This post is based on the draft written since August 2023

Saya selesai menonton serial The Big Bang Theory minggu lalu. Sependek ingatan saya, ini adalah serial barat pertama yang saya selesaikan. Beberapa serial yang saya tonton dan alasannya belum selesai sampai saat ini:

1. Greys Anatomy tapi kemudian berhenti karena satu per satu core team di season 1 meninggalkan show (tersisa Meredith saja).
2. How I Met Your Mother tetapi kemudian takut melanjutkan setelah Robin bersama Barney (I rooted for Ted Mosby and Robin Scherbatsky so so much and felt betrayed when Robin went out with one of Ted's best friend). 
3. Breaking Bad. Serialnya sangat sangat bagus tapi bikin deg degan dan jantungan saya belum berani melanjutkan.
4. Modern Family. Ini juga seru dan banyak pesan moral yang bagus tapi saya salah karena impulsif maraton nonton, jadi kemudian bosan sendiri di season 5. Mogok belum lanjut.